faster.....ouch!

Got too excited,I rushed things up...and now I suffer the consequences,but for me, I made the right choice,since I really dont know if she`s taken or not, So I asked her, but the thing is after knowing she not taken, or NBSB, I got too excited I asked her immediately if I can be an applicant, and asked if what requirements she needs, She replied her Granny does not want to be in a realtionship yet.I wanted what she meant about that one..Am I turned down or something?or I rushed her up, cause I waited no time or did not gave a chance for her to know me or vice versa. but im not closing my doors or what...its not that I dont have any chance or what...I might be too coarse I admit after knowing shes available...It was really a bad start...some say I dont have any chance or I should stop of what Im doing cause its not going to happen after what I did, yeah maybe they are right, and someone told me that I should never ever expect...which I did...but I can say I felt a bit hurt or slightly bitter when I knew I cant court her....OUCH!